Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Does My Boyfriend Still Love Me - What To Look For


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If there is one thing I can sense about the question: "Does my boyfriend still love me?"...that's doubt. And anybody who's been into a serious relationship before will agree that it's extremely hard when there are seeds of doubt, whether within you or your boyfriend.

Everything may seem ok on the surface - both of you are having fun together; you freely exchange ideas; bees gang up on you because you two are really sweet with each other; etc. BUT all of these change when you're alone at your room. You simply can't rid your head of the uncertainty you're feeling, and you ask yourself: "Does my boyfriend still love me?"

Whatever the reason why you're unsure about how you're boyfriend feels about you, here are some things to watch out for to clarify your confused mind...


His eyes will tell. The eyes is the mirror of one's soul...I can't agree more! If he's eyes are all focused on you, when he's talking, especially when expressing what he's feeling, he's sincere about it.


A man who sincerely loves his partner is more than willing to communicate - to listen and to talk, to his partner. Ask yourself, does your boyfriend listen attentively when you start talking?


His personal interests...are you still above them or you're just a part of them? Does his appointment at the gym or his night-out with his best buddies get in your way?


This last part is REALLY crucial...and takes some courage on your part. Tell him that you're having uncertainties about what he's feeling...straight into his face and tell him why.

If your guy really loves you, then he'll do his to turn around the situation. And there is no reason for him to be offended...transparency is a MUST in a serious long-term relationship.

You're just being transparent.

I know there's a ton of ways you can come up with. I won't stop you from seeking advice wit those people who care about you, BUT make sure they're also unbiased with the advice they're giving you.

For now, stick with these tips and answer the question.

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