Are You Strong Enough to Love on Valentine's Day?

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Valentine's Day falls during the time of Aquarius with its energy of scientific reasoning pulsating through every one of our cells. Let's see if Aquarius could give us some insights about Love. It has certainly given us every possible invention to connect us more; giving us time for each other.

Aquarius's scientific reasoning says most everything can simplify to one duality: Will/Love. Will is the masculine aspect of each of us, and Love is our feminine aspect. Each of life's scenarios, no matter what it looks like, has an underlying purpose. It is for us to progress to the point where we have developed the balance of both Will and Love. That may not sound so sexy, but that's why we develop these qualities in action-filled life circumstances. Still, if you ask yourself what went awry in each conflict and what you would need to develop in yourself to be able to be a winner next time, the answer will be one you need either more Will/Strength or Love.

Will has many different expressions: empowerment, respect, strength, courage, humble, discerning, passionate, controlled, integrity, perseverance, confidence, self confidence, determination, fairness and charity. Look inside yourself. How do you express this will in its most balanced form? Add a few to the list from your own experiences.

You don't want to miss out on any of life's journeys that it takes to develop these Will qualities. Just become conscious of the end result; the quality or expression you are striving for instead of the negative qualities such as: being too weak or not strong or willful enough, too strong or too abusive. That's just steps along the way, not the end goal. But don't give up or make yourself wrong and quit. Don't have an accident or illness to take away your power. The balance of will is worth all its journeys.

Let's hope you are getting closer and closer. Will is the expression of the patriarch civilization we've been living in all our lives. It is still in charge until December 21, 2012. Then the pendulum swings to the other side of the duality; to Love, which is the expression of a matriarch civilization. You want to be strong enough and have the courage to truly love and be loved. Love has as many hazards along the way to develop as Will, it just looks different. Love may be even more treacherous as its expedition is laced with false love.

Love is clothed in many beautiful appearances: unconditional love, gratitude, acceptance, caring, forgivingness, innocence, vulnerable, sweetness, tenderness, authenticity, transparency, surrender, nurturing, gracefulness, compassion, purity, beauty, patience, helpfulness and service. Look inside yourself to find the way you express your love. And have patience with yourself as you will finally reach your destination of unconditional love. Just keep it in mind, and forgive yourself for any time you've been manipulative, giving out false love or being a needy smothering person. Aquarius's energy helps you step back and be more objective about yourself. Come up with a plan of how to touch into more of the love inside of you and express it. Go for it!

I would tell you that the stronger, the more courage you have, the easier it is to express your love. On Valentine's Day, a day of love, a day of relationships, it's your day to discover just how strong you are. Are you strong enough to forgive those that hurt you this past year, or do you still want revenge? Are you courageous enough to look beyond someone's rejecting behavior, until you find the tiniest spark of love, just begging someone to bring it out. Come on, be brave. Go for as much love as you can today.

Your question for today is, "Which expression of love is appropriate for each of the people in your life?" They are there for you, to develop and grow until you are truly a loving courageous person, both inside and out. If it's your boss, maybe show appreciation for employing you. If it's a friend, have acceptance of all their flaws. If it's your parents, express gratitude for giving you life. Don't forget yourself. Forgiving yourself for not digging deep enough beneath any hurt to find the love that is there waiting to connect with you or are you still beating yourself up for when you were too strong? With your yummy romantic partner, how about a heart orgasm or a night of intimacy?

Don't let Valentine's Day go past without expressing as much love as you've been able to bring to the outside.

Valentine's Day Special - Love Horoscopes For the Year 2010

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Aries:

You will get plenty of success in your married life and romance. Arians may probably fall in love at first sight as the valentine stars are at their best this year. If you expect a long lasting relationship with an Aries person it will depend upon how full filling his love life is. Don't get too impulsive to cross your limits while buying gifts and presents for your sweetheart. There is also a possibility of someone unexpectedly coming in your life.

Taurus:

You as a Taurus is one of the lovely romantic person about whom everyone around dreams to be engaged with. Travelling and eating out is one area where you will always be ready to spend more than your limit on this valentine. You love your home very passionately and make sure it's comfortable for the people you love around. Astrological calculations say that marriage / relationships will give you a testing time, but not always. So plan a trip and take your spouse for a second Honeymoon just for a change

Gemini:

You are one of the valentines special as the love stars are backing you. Your best ability is that, once you set your eyes on someone its not at all difficult to win a place in his/her heart. Positive attitudes in personal relationships bring back the love and understanding you may have lost for a while. As a parent and guardian you strive to do well as you don't have any generation gap problem with your kids and other senior members of the family.

Cancer:

This year love is in the air and your valentine will be the happiest this season. On the love aspect you are extremely well caring and focused on making your partner be satisfied from you. As a parent you sometimes become over protective and over caring. By remaining faithful to yourself, or the views of others, you will soon achieve your emotional targets.

Leo:

When Leo's fall in love they are over and out, and this is bound to happen this valentine's day so be careful. If love is not returned for love then they tend to hurt their partner and it sometimes takes a long time healing the broken heart. As you have been gifted so abundantly by life, it's important for you to appreciate and love yourself so you have a loving attitude As you start surrendering and become more trusting the right person will walk into your life. Take your spouse on a long drive this Valentine's Day.

Virgo:

Your Valentine stars are in your favour so you definitely make very good lovers and once you have made a commitment you tend to stick to it always. You have to change your habit of being over protecting your loved ones as it can prove to be unlucky for your relationship. As a parent you need to encourage your children and help them in their activities. For a change take your family for an adventure holiday and you will meet some unexpected friends there.

Libra:

You as a Libra are genuine romantic and benevolent givers when in true love, this valentine day will be the happiest day ever. Besides a normal relation with your spouse or love, you are likely to involve with someone else. Because of such involvement, if you ignore to perform well, there could be embarrassing movements. You shower your dear ones with precious gifts and spend. As a parent you tend to give up for demands of your children, this will actually spoil them

Scorpio:

A Scorpio is over possessive and extremely over protective and jealous when in love and romance so be alert this Valentine day. Your love continues to grow intense and intimate. A good spouse or lover is the role you choose to play honestly passionately and romantically. A long drive will be beneficial to sort out any confusion with your partner.

Sagittarius:

Sagittarius people are very passionate and it consumes a lot of efforts to keep up with them as a lover. You will hold a celebration, start a romance or set your lifestyle on a more congenial track. There will be gifts, social occasions and romantic activity. As a parent you are very caring as you give time and attention to your kids which in return shower happiness on you.

Capricorn:

Be ready for a surprise this valentine's day. Not considering how much you love your partner you are not very generous with gifts and are practical when it comes to money. But when you are in love it will be for forever. You will have to learn to be more responsive towards your partner and love. Any happy event in your life will bring in it a positive revival or significant change. As a parent show love and affection towards your children if you want to win their little hearts and will make them love you even more.

Aquarius:

Extremely magnetic the opposite partner is appreciating your unique and straight forward style. This valentine singles will find romantic opportunities. You need to be more open and let your true emotions be seen. Do not try to keep secrets deep in your heart, just share them with someone you trust, this will relax your mind. As a parent you need to spend more time with your children

Pisces:

Love stars are in your favour this year so be ready for romantic surprises. You are a very loving and caring partner, eager to shower love as well as receive it. If looking for a new relationship you will get the best. Marital life would be interesting though at times tempers will fly egos clash making matters a bit difficult but you will overcome that. You try to do everything to encourage your children to excel in life and become a good human being.